The simplicity of instinctive living.
This is a corollary to my post What if the universe is like a vision board? Or what if you could live your life without struggling, striving or opposing?
Struggling is resisting… what is.
Striving is resisting… what is.
Opposing, by it’s very nature, is resisting… what is.
I believe that you can live a life of resistance or at least begin working towards it right now. I won’t sit here and say it’s anything that I’ve mastered. I’m on the path, just like everyone else, to try to make life better, to make life worth something to show up for. There are teachers, gurus, authors, and the like who want to sell you on their enlightenment, but I’ve got nothing to sell here, only some experiences to share, because I believe through sharing we can commisterate in the human condition.
Lately, I’ve come to see common threads in my own life. For instance, there’s a clear delineation between what I’ve thought would be a good idea, and that which I didn’t think about very much, but felt right, and did. The former are things that made a lot of sense, the latter are things that just made sense to me, emotionally, or in my “gut” and I went for it. Surely, a nod to the post Kill Your Good Ideas is necessary here.
However, the story doesn’t end there.
Those things that I did with my “gut” vs. those things that were good ideas, I’ve realized, have had some interesting outcomes. For instance, things that started with a gut reaction, that made emotional sense, that I just jumped into doing, are not only still going strong in my life, but they’ve had the longest lasting impact on me and others. Whereas those good ideas that I had, mostly, lasted until inspiration and ideaness dissipated and then they fell to the wayside.
So what I’m saying here is contrary to the Cartesian idea of Cogito ergo sum – I think therefore I am, and rather I would say it’s more like I am; and from there becomes a point of departure for all things in the universe.
Let me explain, I think that we in the west, and elsewhere (as we’ve become more “civilized” and lost our connection with our source) have moved towards worshiping a god of thought in a sacred temple of ideas. Whereas as a people more connected to the source we had to rely more on experience, emotion and gut or our connection to our being to make decisions. We weren’t so invested in “thinking things through” or letting our thoughts dictate our lives.
As hunters and gathers, when the food was gone, we knew that we had to move on… and we did. I doubt that hunters and gathers spent a lot of time contemplating which direction to move in, or which direction would provide the most sustenance. They didn’t have to “think” about it, they knew instinctively.
Finally, I guess that’s what this comes down to: If you want to have a life where you’re not constantly resisting what is, then try to live instinctively. The vision board, in some way I can’t explain, plants seeds in your being, and as you move through life, the seeds are being cultivated by the decisions you make. The danger is when we start “thinking” about shortcuts to achieve things on the vision board and reach those places in our life. As the Tao Te Ching says, “when you rush a project to completion, your ruin a fruit that was almost ripe”…